Do Polish girls want to marry Americans?

Poles love Americans and Americans love Poles. However, dating is a little more complicated and not what many people think. This is not the 1980s and Poland is not the Soviet Union, nor was it ever. Polish girls choose guys because they are in love and a subconscious component of this is they are compatible including culture.

Do Polish girls want to marry western guys?

I do not know, it took a year for my wife to even would go out on a date me because she thought I was a foreign guy who wanted to play. Only when she got to know me, then she we start meeting and dating. Basically I had to move to Poland to date her.

Polish girls and American guys
My beautiful family, I thank God for.

Let me tell you a story. It was funny one day I pulled out my Polish identity card after knowing her for about nine months. She was asking me who is this with the last name of ‘Biernat’. I said that is me, she said what, I though you last name was Smith. I said  I am Polish. Needless to say I she was pretty happy.

It is not that she did not want to date a foreigner (me) it is that it makes like complicated. Many English guys come for a weekend and the go home. Many people come from different cultures and religions or are not religious and where will they get married, how will they raise their children? It is easier to marry someone of the same religion and a nice boy to take home to the parents.

  • Irish, Polish and Italian marriages actually work pretty well. Many Muslim and Polish marriage work because both are religious people. But agnostics cultures and Poles do not mix well as there are cultural differences.
  • Poles who are Americans really find happiness and bliss in Poland with Polish partners as there are similarities and difference but just enough to make it interesting.

 Culture is a reason marriages to foreigners are always martial bliss

Having lived in Eastern Europe a good part of my life I can tell you that most women there love their guys and want to marry their guys, same culture can bring them home to Mama. Polish girls want Polish guys, and Russian girls are very nationalistic and want Russian guys.  Yet in every culture, even American we complain about our own. We complain about American women and American women complain about us. It is nature. Polish girls complain about Polish men sometimes. Even in the Bible Jesus said a prophet is not honored in his home town, or something like this.

However, the other extreme is I see British and Polish marriages break after a few years from the strain of two different realities. Their approaches to life are different.

Two types of American guys looking for love in Poland

  • Americans and Poles are more congruent culturally, but it depends are you talking Americans with a real love of Europe and maybe Catholic; or some sport watching American who is pround of his business accomplishments, thinking money impresses girls (it does not and I defy anyone who tells me it does).
  • Yet still, some Americans mistakenly think because they are from the west they can just import a Polish girl for a wife. I tell them not so fast, if you do this and not understand the complexities of the cultures than you will wake up one day and realize you married just another farm girl from Kansas with red shoes.

Further, I know a lot of American girls dating or married to Eastern Europeans and living in Eastern Europe. I know many people on my blog asking how to marry an Eastern European for a passport. This is not the stereotype that Polish girls are dreaming of marrying a western guy to escape. Yeah right. On he contrary, I think many Americans escape to Poland like I did.

Again, before I married my wife I learned Polish and went to her Church. We fit well, as well being madly in love.

EU factor in marriage

Look All EU citizens are like US citizens, free movement of labor and capital. There are millions of Poles in the UK and Ireland. Many marry there, but the USA is a zillion miles away and the standard is just OK.

Look if I was a chick and wanted a better life I would go to Norway or Sweden or France, a million other places close to home in the EU than the USA.   In Europe you have free medical, universities,  care long vacations (months) interesting history, in the USA the economy is just OK.  I love the states but I would not say we are the empire we once were.

Life in Krakow shops – look at this article I wrote about shopping in Krakow, look at the photos,  It is not a bad life in Poland you know.

So are foreigners special?

Yes because there is a novelty in being different. But there is a lot more to love than just novelty.






14 responses to “Do Polish girls want to marry Americans?”

  1. Buddha Head

    Interesting. You make me want to learn Polish as soon as possible.

  2. paulina

    I love your site on Poland I am polish girl 😛 I can say that polish girl like American people and meeting them 🙂

    1. Mark Biernat

      Poles have a good rapport with Americans and Americans with Poles. I know many Polish girls and guys married to American girls and guys. The cliche is American men marry Polish girls because they are so beautiful, but I know many where the converse is true also. Basically Poles and Americans have a commonality because they are both democratic people with religious values. When the guy next door or the girl next door does not work out seeing a broader perspective that the world is full of opportunity, then you see that if you keep an open mind about cultures anything could happen.

    2. Kevin

      Hello Paulina,

      You do not know me. Nor do I know you. I feel I am a good man looking for a happy relationship with the right woman. Too many people these days wanting to take advantage of decent people. Most likely – that is where this reply will most likely end up. If that is the case, “pieprzyć” That is really too bad. We will see what my reply ‘generates’. Vagrants no doubt.

    3. Phil

      I am an American boy (17 years old) learning polish for the sole purpose of meeting a beautiful Polska dziewcynka. 😉

  3. Tosia

    Not all polish girls are religious (especialy the younger ones) <- it's about half-half actually.

    1. Mark Biernat

      That is tragic, Polish girls that bloat themselves with pride and do not see what the world is about a spritual battle. Why would anyone marry a girl who is just about the here and now and nothing eternal. You would be better off not marrying and athiestic Polish girl.

  4. MC

    Hello-I have been to Warsaw on more that one occasion. As any city is the woman are diverse as are the places you can see. I found the ceremony in old town with the single girls to be enchanting They are a proud people and there are many beautiful and intelligent woman. If you go to some place though, you will find what is in every metropolitan area. You get what you are looking for I would love to meet a sweet pole but have no clue how too at this point I am not going back to old town any time soon.

  5. Justyna

    First of all I must say that I love this Blog.
    I’m Polish girl and I’ve got many girlfriend in US. They love US but they prefer Polish man.
    For me it doesn’t matter what nationality is the guy, but he has to be good

  6. Alexa

    There are many reasons why we would like to meet American guys. Probably we have this stereotype that American men are romantic and interesting. But I don’t know where to find one actually.

  7. Justyna

    Nice article, and yes I agree to most of the things here. I wish one of those Americans just happened in my life. I just love their attitude towards life. Whenever I come back from the US I’m kinda infected with their optimism. I wish I could meet one and fall madly in love 🙂 have a good one!

  8. Marze Faris

    I can say as Polish- Irish.. Poland loves America and as life evolved on European continent there is none or very rarely such thing as marriage for a better life or papers.. Most of Polish women are stunning and they are aware of their looks they want a foreign man because its love novelty fun good time etc. If love evolves than they are OK to marry but friendship is as important.. Americans and Poles share the same values and Poles grew up on American example whether TV or ancestors who came to America long time ago.. I have American friends and we are great together. God Bless both Americans and Poles.

  9. Natalia

    Ok, so hello, Mark. So why are you saying that “You would be better off not marrying and atheistic Polish girl.”? It’s this weird social stigma, which always puts atheists in a bad light, especially here – in Poland. I’m not saying that I am an atheist, but how can you, as a Catholic, who should respect everybody and pursue unity with all the people, write such things? I get that you are crazy about your God and that this is a significant value for you – but really! Think twice before you post things like that.

    1. Mark Biernat

      It is not philosophy or a rule for all people. It is just some advice to people seeking love that will last a lifetime based on experiences with people I observe. It is anecdotal and not to be taken as scientific fact. However, I personally think if a believer is involved with a non-believer, this is based on infatuation rather than a spiritual bond, and that does not end well in my observed experience. I am not tell you anyone what to do. Just a word to the wise.

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